
Finding Time for You
Your Most Vital Commitment
Within each of us
there is a well of energy
that must be regularly replenished.
When we act as if this well is bottomless,
scheduling a long list of activities
that fit like puzzle pieces
into every minute of every day,
it becomes depleted
and we feel
exhausted…
disconnected…
and weak.
Refilling this well
is a matter of finding time
to focus on, nurture,
and care for ourselves,
or “you time.”
Most of us are, at different times
throughout the day,
a spouse, a friend,
a relative, an employee,
a parent, or a volunteer,
which means that down time,
however relaxing in nature,
is not necessarily “you time.”
Though some people will inevitably
look upon “you time” as being selfish,
it is actually
the polar opposite
of selfishness.
We can only excel where
our outer world affairs are concerned
when our own
spiritual,
physical,
and
intellectual needs
are fulfilled.
Recognizing
the importance of “you time”
is far easier
than finding a place for it
in an active,
multifaceted lifestyle.
However, even if you find a spot for it
in your agenda,
you may be dismayed to discover
that your thoughts
continuously stray
into worldly territory.
To make the most of “you time,”
give yourself enough time
on either side
of the block of time
you plan to spend on yourself
to ensure that you do not feel
rushed.
Consider how you would like to pass the time,
forgetting for the moment your obligations
and embracing the notion of renewal.
You may discover
that you are energized by
creative pursuits,
guided meditation,
relaxing activities
during which
your mind can wander,
or modes of expression
such as writing.
Even if you have achieved
a functioning work-life balance,
you may still be neglecting
the most important part of that equation:
you.
“You time” prepares you
for the next round of daily life,
whether you are poised to immerse yourself
in a professional project
or chores around the home.
It also affords you a unique opportunity
to learn about yourself,
your needs,
and your tolerances
in a concrete way.
As unimportant as “you time” can sometimes seem,
it truly is crucial to your well-being
because it ensures
that you are never left
without the energy to give of yourself.
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